Believe in yourself

My quick tip for today is to believe in yourself or find someone else who believes in you.

Believe you can do something and you're giving yourself a huge head start.  But what happens if you really want to do something but you doubt yourself or don't believe you can?

In this case find someone who believes in you more than you believe in yourself.

This might be a family member a friend, your boss a business colleague...

You can also hire a coach who you connect with.  As part of my job as a life coach and law of attraction practitioner, I am often able to offer this kind of support even to people I don't know particularly well.

As a coach, I am able to see the picture as it is without doubt or limiting beliefs.

If you don't have someone who believes in you and you need this kind of support please get in touch.

Email me at wendy@wendytomlinsoncoaching.com

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Wendy

Drop judging people

Here's what I've learned through years of coaching people and observing people.  If you tend to judhe other people in a particular way, you also tend to think people are judging you.

Here's an example.  Before every party Jennifer worries herself silly about what other people will think of her, especially what she looks like to the point that she often doesn't enjoy the event.

Afterwards, she always comments in a negative way about at least one person "Well did you see the state of ..."

There's no wonder she thinks other people might be putting her down because she does it all the time.

So my top tip for you is to really think about whether you do this in any part of your life.


Give it a go and see what happens.

Wendy

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Make your own decisions

It's always nice to hear other people's points of views and opinions (well mostly) and sometimes it's good to get advice from other people.

However, I encourage you to ultimately make your own decisions.  To trust yourself to make the right decisions.

Whilst today's not a hypnosis spotlight post I do want to share this link for a download.  (affiliate link) Trust Yourself

I want you to trust yourself and trust your own judgement.

Affirmation: I trust my own judgement and can easily make my own decisions.

Be You -Don't compare

Today my quick tip for you is to simply BE Yourself.  Be who you are and don't compare yourself to anyone else because you are completely and wonderfully unique.

The only person I want you to compare yourself to is the person you were yesterday.

Wendy

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Quick tip; Stop judging other people

Seriously, stop it. If you're someone who judges other people regularly stop it.  It's no good for you.

Let me give you an example.

Lucy worries about what other people with think of how she looks every time she goes out.

After every social event, Lucy can be heard saying things like "Did you see... she looked awful in that dress" or "Did you see the size of... he was massive."

If you don't want people to judge you, then don't do it to others.

As a life coach, I see this happening with people who have low self-esteem a lot.

People who don't judge in this way, rarely worry about what others think about them.  They don't do it, so they assume that others don't either.

SHIFT YOUR FOCUS: Focus and talk about the positives about other people.  Mention how nice a person was or how pretty you though someone's dress was.

It's a positive and nice habit to get into.

Wendy